Kayla Nicole is reflecting on her previous relationship.
The social media influencer opened as much as PEOPLE completely in regards to the “challenges” of courting an expert athlete and what she’s realized from doing so following her on-again, off-again relationship with Travis Kelce, which resulted in Might 2022.
Whereas chatting about her victorious season on Fox’s Particular Forces: World’s Hardest Take a look at on Wednesday, Feb. 5, Nicole defined that she was “proud” of herself upon successful the fact quasi-military coaching competitors collection as a result of she did it along with her “personal grit and grind.”
That is one thing she mentioned was ignored whereas courting a high-profile determine. “My success has been attributed to folks that [she] was in shut proximity to,” she says, explaining, “That is one thing that occurs to ladies on a regular basis, particularly simply within the leisure business and public fields.”
When Nicole dated Kelce, she shared that she by no means recognized with the time period that is generally used to outline companions {of professional} athletes. “I by no means referred to myself as a W.A.G.” she makes clear.
“I really feel medical doctors’ wives do not name themselves D.A.G.s… You recognize what I imply?” the sports activities broadcaster poses. “I do not know why that even grew to become a factor except for the TV present, however I get it.”
Nicole went on to checklist the tough points of pursuing a romantic relationship with an athlete, together with the time consumption of their commitments to the crew and fixed journey for video games.
“I feel that courting an athlete is a alternative and generally is a problem for any girl as a result of I feel that their schedules require quite a bit,” she says. “Particularly if it is lengthy distance and you end up form of placing your objectives and your desires on the again burner to help theirs.”
Nicole concludes, “So I feel discovering that stability in life is certainly a wrestle.”
Reflecting on her previous and all that she’s overcome up to now — together with the net negativity she’s confronted within the wake of their breakup, a lot of which she learns to sort out all through Particular Forces — Nicole has recommendation for these in a relationship with an expert participant.
“So to anybody that is courting a professional athlete, I all the time say, ‘Woman, put you first. Love your man down — but additionally bear in mind who you might be and what your objectives are too,'” Nicole shares, noting that romances within the public eye aren’t all the time what they might appear.
“I feel too, we make it seem to be it is such a glamorous life-style, however it’s one other human and it is one other man,” the influencer provides. “And I’ll stand on this hill that courting males on the whole is a problem. So I do not care what his job is… If he is an athlete, a health care provider, a lawyer, he works at FedEx. Good luck.”
Nicole concludes, “It’s males which can be the issue as of late.”
Elsewhere in her interview with PEOPLE, Nicole opened up about whether or not she’s prepared to seek out love once more having been vocal prior to now about the “overwhelming” public consideration she acquired after her break up from Kelce.
“Love is without doubt one of the finest elements of life,” Nicole says of whether or not she’s healed sufficient to open herself again as much as a brand new romance. “I’d by no means shut myself off to ever experiencing love once more.”
She provides, “I feel too, with love comes heartbreak and with heartbreak comes love. It is one and the identical, and I’d take the chance of heartbreak again and again if that meant that I get to expertise love once more.”